We are coming up On Valentine’s Day and I was talking to my good friend Stacey about passion and igniting it! I was so inspired by my conversation that I asked her if she could speak to my peeps and so she has written a Love Letter to YOU AND allowed me to share her secrets with you!!!!
I’m Laura’s good friend, Stacey Martino and I wanted to speak to you today about something I’m Passionate about and that’s your unshakable love!
Do you desire an unshakable love and an unleashed passion? To walk through your day knowing, without a doubt that YOU are the most important thing in your partner’s world. Completely lit up by the energy of the desire you feel for your partner. And enjoying a ravishing intimacy with your partner on a daily basis!!
That’s not the reality for most people, is it? Intimate relationship comes with its share of inherent challenges!
As a love and passion expert, people come to me every day for help with their relationship challenges. While the specifics may vary, the complaints usually involve some form of BUT MY PARTNER…There’s usually something wrong with their partner, something their partner IS or IS NOT doing, something that falls short of their expectations.
People often ask me, “how do I know if I’m with the right person? Maybe he/she is just not the one for me?” Well there are ways to know, but honestly, when people first come to ME, they are not at the point where they can clearly make that determination… yet. I see it every day. When you get stuck in blaming your partner, is when the pain comes into your intimate relationship. When you feel powerless. When you feel at the whim of your partner. Will they or won’t they do what you need? This is a very destructive place to be in relationship.
“Magnificent relationships are not found, they are created.” – Stacey Martino
We do FALL in love, that’s absolutely true. Falling in love is something that happens TO YOU. And that is the LAST moment when anything to do with BEING in love will ever just happen TO YOU.
The rest YOU must create! Being in love, staying in love, going deeper into love, cultivating a heightened passion, living a life of magnificence – none of that will happen TO YOU. You must CREATE all of that! Ask anyone who HAS that kind of love and they will tell you that they did the work!
In fact, it takes effort and creation to create magnificence in EVERY area of your life. Look at anyone who has an abundance of wealth, an outstanding health, incredible fitness or magnificent love affair….and you will find someone who set a high standard for themselves and did what it took to create what they wanted!
I asked my coach about my relationship with my partner and husband Paul: “I’ve had this glimpse of this unbelievably powerful love for Paul, but then I lost it. How do I get it to come back and more importantly, how do I get it to stay?”
She gave me a piece of advice that I never forgot, she said “Give as if you are already getting everything you need in the world.”
I lived by that motto for a year. I transformed myself, I transformed Paul and I transformed our relationship. Paul and I became so incredibly grateful for our amazing love that we nearly lost, that we went all in! We invested 13 years and six figures to travel all over and study with the world’s leading relationship, behavior and intimacy specialists to completely transform our relationship into the magnificent love affair that we enjoy today!
Together, our mission is that everyone who wants to transform their relationship should absolutely be able to do so! And so we created our proven eight step Relationship Transformation System™ to help people create the love and passion they desire in their intimate relationship without the 13 years and six figures that it took us to create ours!!!
Your intimate relationship impacts every area of your life, your work, your kids, your confidence, your self-worth, your happiness! Can you really afford to leave that in the hands of someone else? Do you want your happiness and self-worth to exist at the whim of another person?
Is it time for you to empower yourself to create your unshakable love and unleashed passion that will last your lifetime??
Stop waiting for it to happen TO YOU. Stop SEEKING it. Start building it!! Don’t waste another day with your intimate relationship causing pain in your life! Start creating your magnificent relationship right now! It is SO worth it!!
Stacey Martino helps people who feel stuck, frustrated and helpless with the challenges that intimate relationship brings. Through targeted, strategic private coaching, programs and events for her Relationship Transformation™, Relationship Rescue™ and Relationship Transition™ programs, individuals learn to use her proven strategies and tools to create an unshakable love and unleashed passion that lasts a lifetime.
Want these Secrets to creating an unshakable love and an unleashed passion?? Join me on this live call TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 4th with relationship guru Stacey Martino! Register here!
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It’s always a good reminder to dedicate some energy to your husband. I’ve been thinking about this lately – the balance between work, and children, and husband… it’s quite the juggle sometimes!
Laura Clark Reply:
January 31st, 2014 at 12:28 pm
Yes, it is Dorothy!! And add in sprinkles of challenges, showers of friendships and sunrays of laughter and it is a JUGGLE!!!!
Comment by Dorothy Pang, The Natural Fertility Expert — January 30, 2014 @ 8:59 pm